Aliveness Coaching

EMPOWERING SINGLE GAY MEN WHO ARE SETTLING FOR SEX WITHOUT LOVE WHEN THEY REALLY WANT BOTH TO FINALLY CREATE IT

You’re an eligible bachelor.

Yet, you don’t understand why you’re single and struggling to find Love (even your friends are baffled).

You are tired of the app culture, random sex, and waiting for your "Mr. Right".

You feel discouraged, jaded, and a part of you has given up on Love.

Another - perhaps deeper part of you - is longing to meet your life partner, your “soul-mate”.

What you’ve been doing until now hasn’t been working.

You’re yearning for something different – something more fulfilling and meaningful.

You don’t know how to “get there".

I know what that’s like. I was single for many years, a “hopeless romantic”, had nearly given up on relationship altogether, and felt frustrated and angry in my aloneness. I had gotten the message to “clear house” on my self-limiting beliefs around relationship but wasn't ready to do the heavy lifting required of me initially. I was scared to confront deeper pain, blindspots, afraid of what I would make that mean about myself. Blaming it on the outside world was so much easier and more convenient, such as pointing the finger at the gay community, at men, or some thing “out there" -- external.

At some point, I had enough. I started to take more responsibility for my experience. I decided to courageously look within. I journeyed deeply within myself and I identified, examined, and released the unconscious core self-limiting beliefs I was holding around relationship. I became devoted to my process. Within the next year, I met “my guy”, and years later now, we are still together to this day. I experience ease in this relationship, unlike former ones. And, I attribute this largely to the self-empowering work I did before meeting him.

I believe that our desires and fears can oppose each other and send mixed signals to the universe, thereby getting in the way of creating precisely what we want. I’d like to help you navigate through these muddy waters, get crystal clear on your desires (perhaps some buried), uncover underlying fears, work through shame & internalized homophobia, and debunk core self-limiting beliefs you have about dating, relationship, and most importantly, yourself. I believe that you can create the optimal energetic container to attract a compatible partner that's right for you. I come to you now not as a “hopeless romantic” but as a “hopeful romantic”, and I’m ready to support you in finding the Love that is you and the Love that awaits you.

If reading this lights you up and excites you, I urge you to reach out to me via email or phone so we can set up a complimentary connection call first. I look forward to connecting with you.

Yours Truly,

Noor Alexander