Brian Rzepczynski

Business Details

The Gay Love Coach


Helping Gay Men to Achieve:

  • A Fulfilling Single Lifestyle and Dating Success
  • A Passionate Long-Term Relationship That Lasts
  • A Healthy and Satisfying Sex Life of Erotic Bliss

"The Gay Love Coach"

Dating, Relationship, & Sex Expert for the Gay Community

Brian Rzepczynski holds a Doctorate Degree in human sexuality from the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality and a Master’s Degree in clinical social work from Western Michigan University and has been practicing as a psychotherapist for the past 18 years. Recognizing the significant void that exists in our society for information and assistance for the gay community on how to establish and maintain healthy and successful gay relationships, Brian founded “The Gay Love Coach: Man 4 Man Coaching Services” (www.thegaylovecoach.com) in 2003 to help meet this need. Providing individual telephone coaching sessions and group programs on an international basis, his website and services have become increasingly popular and he is one of the pioneers in the love coaching field specifically for the GLBT community. He’s also well-known for his writing, and his practical tips and “how-to” articles are popular reads all over the World Wide Web and are sought after for inclusion in other business’ newsletters, blogs, and websites.

His business has also attracted media attention, landing him a co-authorship book deal for the 2005 self-help book “A Guide to Getting It: Purpose & Passion”, was previously signed by Gretna Green, a media production company affiliated with William Morris Endeavor Entertainment for participation in a television show that was never launched, and he has become a consistent point of reference for interviews for print media on gay relationships and dating, including The Chicago Tribune, Esquire Magazine, and multiple citations with MSN.com, as well as an honorary mention on the blog of television network channel Logo’s TV show “My Fabulous Gay Wedding” for partnership with one of their affiliates. He is also the resident love advice columnist for multiple print and web-based newspapers and dating sites and appeared as a guest on World Talk Radio’s radio show “Single Talk” discussing the “Top 10 Secrets for Gay Dating Success.” He has also been hired as a workshop presenter across the country giving talks and seminars on topics related to gay dating, relationships, and sexuality.

Brian’s educational background and professional experience showcases him to be known as one of the leading authorities on gay love and relationships. He also holds additional educational certifications in anger management, grief recovery, clinical treatment with LGBT individuals and their families, life and relationship coaching, couples therapy, sex education, and clinical sexology. He is a member of the National Association of Social Workers, Relationship Coaching Institute, The International Association of Coaches, and The American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists.

His driving passion to see his mission for quality gay relationship and sexuality education come to fruition on both micro and macro-levels, Brian’s got some big plans in the works! From writing books to developing and leading various specialized programs on gay dating, relationships, and sexual enrichment, Dr. Brian’s vision also is leading him down the path of wanting to make a “splash” with creative and innovative radio and television broadcast media programming.

He’s not all about work though! Residing in the Chicago area at this time, Brian lives with his partner of 12 years, Scott, and enjoys swimming, theatre, shopping, outdoor fun, family and friends, and jamming out to Madonna tunes on the beach sampling different martini and margarita drinks. A consummate professional and a whimsical ham, Brian offers both the educational resources and the personality to help make a difference in this much-needed area of gay life.

“I work with gay men who are ready to create a roadmap that will lead them to find and build a lasting partnership with Mr. Right.”
-Dr. Brian Rzepczynski, The Gay Love Coach


Historically, there have minimal resources available to the gay community for fostering positive and affirming identities, particularly in the area of relationships. While there finally appears to be a shift in society’s awareness of gay issues, there remains a crucial void for fulfilling the needs that gay men seek to enhance the quality of their lives and relationships. Predominantly due to homophobia and a lack of visible role models, we were never really taught how to best manage our singlehood as gay men, let alone how to effectively date and maintain intimate long-term relationships with other men. And that is the driving force behind the creation of "The Gay Love Coach: Man 4 Man Coaching Services"™.

This website, and its offerings, is intended to serve as a central hub and interactive community for gay men seeking information and support for more efficiently navigating their single/dating lives, relationships, and sexuality. Despite the negative and ignorant stereotypes, gay relationships CAN and DO thrive. There has just been a lack of guidance in helping gay men better understand themselves, identify what they’re looking for in a potential partner, and develop the necessary skills and confidence to seek out and sustain healthy, long-term committed relationships. It is hoped, through my program offerings and coaching services, as well as the shared wisdom of all gay men around the globe who visit and participate on my website, that our community can benefit with improved knowledge and skills for being more happily single or coupled in our lives.

“I work with gay men who are ready to create a road map that will lead them to find and build a lasting partnership with Mr. Right.” —Dr. Brian Rzepczynski, The Gay Love Coach™ www.thegaylovecoach.com

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