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Welcome! I’m Ray Hippolyte.
My mission is to help YOU attract your perfect soulmate and live the life of your dreams.
A few years ago I took a long hard look at the life I was living… all the partying, all the casual encounters, all the status-driven game-playing that I used to gloss over my difficult emotions and insecurities… had left me with a nagging sense of loneliness and low self-worth.
I felt like I was aging fast, I didn’t have much to show for my life and Iwas beginning to wonder if I would ever find love and lasting happiness. And then my world fell apart. I was diagnosed with HIV. “That’s it – game over I though. Who could possibly love me now? What is there to live for?”
I felt empty, unlovable and alone. It was a very, very dark time in my life.
You know how they say that what does not kill you makes you stronger? Worse was to come. My sister, my best friend, was shot and killed. This was the saddest moment in my life. But it was also my biggest wake-up call. It was like a slap in the face to step up and live life fully and meaningfully.
I started living my life with new daring and energy. I got into personal development. I came out to my family sharing my story and my truth. I started accepting myself with all my imperfections, while at the same time doing my damnedest to become the best version of me.
I felt free and true and unstoppable for the first time in my life. And I started to believe that maybe, just maybe, there was still a possibility that I could finally find my soulmate and that we could walk the journey together.
You see, I’d come to realize that in order to FIND ‘the one’, I first needed to BE ‘the One.’
Kind of obvious once you hear it, right? Because no one is out there writing on their wish-list: would love to meet shallow, lonely guy with low self-esteem and an air of hopelessness (like, NO-ONE).
And no-one even wants to be with a guy who WANTS to be with someone like that!
So something had to change – and it HAD to start with ME.
These days I sometimes have to pinch myself … I live with my incredible soulmate Jim, we divide our time between New York city and our beautiful Michigan lakeside home, and we’re even starting a family… Life IS awesome – and it all started with some decisions I made WITHIN.
Now I feel incredibly blessed to share what I learned with people all around the world, showing you how to Out Your Inner Awesome and attract the life and love of your dreams, no matter where you find yourself currently in your life.